Relationship Politics

[talktooloose]

It seems like letting Snake and Tutu work out their own relationship is the right thing for me to do. Without me running interference, their fights actually escalate a bit louder and higher and then they are forced to talk as adults. When I blunt the edges, it might just delay the discussion they need.

Why does this seem so obvious now?

Do those of you in ltr's ever muse about new lovers? Not necessarily specific ones but the idea of being in a new, fresh and perfectly trouble-free relationship? I've been day-dreaming about this lately. Should I be worried?

Comments

Re: Elle aime tomber amoureuse

[talktooloose.livejournal.com]

Fighting is necessary if two people are going to try and resolve sometimes huge differences in order to have a relationship. The question is, do you know how to fight? Have the two of you learned how to do it so it will lead somewhere constructive? The only alternative to fighting I see is not having a relationship. That may be fine for you, but I wouldn't want that.

Fighting is inescapable in this world. Can you do it so that both parties come out winners? We better learn as a world, or we're doomed. And if two people can't, how will nations?