Chapters in Indigo
May. 1st, 2009 09:38 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
talktoolooseSorry, dumb subject pun.
Toutou just left our house for good. For those of you new to the story, Snake taught in China for four months in 2001. There, he met and fell in love with a young man from Beijing. After a bit of negotiation, we agreed that we would help Toutou move to Canada and that we would experiment with a threeway relationship.
It was actually not a complete triangle as Toutou and I weren't partners; rather, we had Snake in common. Snake alternated nights with us and it was all very instructive and kind of refreshing.
Before Snake left for China, our relationship was in a rocky patch. After Toutou came to live with us, we grew closer again. However, their relationship went downhill for three (four?) years until it was the walking dead.
Toutou continued to live with us until this morning. He and I got on quite well, but Snake had a lot of seething resentment that made life in our house less than pleasant sometimes. It astonishes me that Snake feels no emotion on this housemate and former lover leaving. It's just a relief. I, personally, got a bit choked up.
So many chapters drawing to a close. The piano is moving today and we're spending the weekend emptying the main floor. Monday we begin to bash at the plaster. It's going to be a whole new way of living in more ways than one.
Quite unsettling.
Toutou just left our house for good. For those of you new to the story, Snake taught in China for four months in 2001. There, he met and fell in love with a young man from Beijing. After a bit of negotiation, we agreed that we would help Toutou move to Canada and that we would experiment with a threeway relationship.
It was actually not a complete triangle as Toutou and I weren't partners; rather, we had Snake in common. Snake alternated nights with us and it was all very instructive and kind of refreshing.
Before Snake left for China, our relationship was in a rocky patch. After Toutou came to live with us, we grew closer again. However, their relationship went downhill for three (four?) years until it was the walking dead.
Toutou continued to live with us until this morning. He and I got on quite well, but Snake had a lot of seething resentment that made life in our house less than pleasant sometimes. It astonishes me that Snake feels no emotion on this housemate and former lover leaving. It's just a relief. I, personally, got a bit choked up.
So many chapters drawing to a close. The piano is moving today and we're spending the weekend emptying the main floor. Monday we begin to bash at the plaster. It's going to be a whole new way of living in more ways than one.
Quite unsettling.
