Getting to Know You

[talktooloose]

I seem to losing my ability to have anonymous, casual sex. In the past, I've been able to let down barriers with sympatico strangers much more easily. But lately, unless I get to know someone, I have trouble connecting with my sexual nature. I don't know how much non-sexual foreplay I require — meeting someone at a party, chatting and flirting for a few hours might be fine. But, in general, everything in my life is more and more about process. Sometimes it seems like anything worthwhile takes months, including certain sexual goals. There is mental process, physical process, emotional process. And then it's out of this world, or an amazing new world of sensation.

But it's kind of frustrating that I'm getting more complicated with age.

Comments

[chronicpaint.livejournal.com]

I'm much the same. I need more than random organs. And that has only gotten stronger as I age

[talktooloose.livejournal.com]

It sort of feels like I have more to lose than before with strangers, and more to gain with people I know and love.

[chronicpaint.livejournal.com]

Amen.

[briseur.livejournal.com]

Strangers are exciting; their mystery never ends
But there's nothing like looking at your own history
In the faces of your friends